If you don’t design your own life plan, chances are you’ll fall into someone else’s plan. And guess what they have planned for you? Not much.
— Quote by Jim Rohn
It’s a tough pill to swallow, but one we all need to learn at some point in life: I’m the one making my own bed. My life isn’t your fault.
Oh, I might TRY to blame someone else for my wrong decisions, or I might TRY to put the responsibility for myself off on another person… but that is always a huge mistake.
Blaming you gives you the power. If you don’t change, I can’t change.
Watch yourself for the tendency to say things like “I’d love to eat better, but it’s impossible in my family” or “How can I possibly workout on a regular basis when I have to take care of everybody else?”
The airlines tell you to put your own oxygen mask on first. If YOU don’t take care of YOU… who will?
Come on down to the gym. Let’s talk about it.